By Matt Gorden, Creator, Ejaculation Trainer
It seems there is a lot of pressure to put on guys to perform well sexually, so when premature ejaculation problem arises, it may be difficult for a guy to discuss the issue with someone due to embarrassment. Being casual and opening up about PE can actually make a big difference however. Not many guys are comfortable seeking advices from their male friends on problems related to sex. Often, a guy would not even tell his partner about his problem. While it is perfectly okay for you to feel some reserve when discussing with others a personal issue as embarrassing as premature ejaculation, you should at least try to feel comfortable speaking to your physician. A trained professional such as a doctor or a sex therapist can help you with your sexual concerns and offer you with valuable advices.
You should work up your courage and book an appointment with a doctor about your problem as soon as you can, and you may also bring up the issue during your next regular check-up or when you are at the doctor for any other type of health reason. Remember, they are trained medical professionals who are supposed to help you with any health concern you may have, premature ejaculation included. A doctor understands how important a healthy, fulfilling sex life is to the overall well being of a human being. A doctor will also understand you may feel a little embarrassed the first time when you speak to him or her regarding your sexual concerns. You should also keep in mind that your doctor sees many patients with various health concerns every single day. He or she gets asked all sorts of questions. Therefore, in the eyes of your doctor, being asked questions about premature ejaculation is not embarrassing at all because it is just another day.
When you speak to your doctor about your premature ejaculation problem, he or she is going to ask you some generalized questions. Therefore, it is best for you to have this information prepared before your visit so it will better help your doctor to figure out what advice to give you. Of course your doctor is going to need you to tell him or her your premature ejaculation symptoms, such as the length of time you usually can last, how often you reach a climax before you or your partner would like, and if you have been experiencing other symptoms or any kind of pains. Your doctor will also review your sexual history with you, and whether or not the problem of premature ejaculation has always been with you or whether it is a more recent development. The doctor is going to want to find out if your situation has some sort of pattern. He or she will also request your medical history to figure out if there is maybe medical reason behind your PE problem, such as a prostate infection or an enlarged prostate.
Your first step in overcoming your early ejaculation problem is to speak to a doctor about it. A trained medical professional will help you feel at ease and guide you to the right direction in successfully treating the problem. Moreover, it is also a good idea if you can think of as many questions as possible so you can ask them all at once when you meet with your doctor, and write them down if you can. The reason is that most people have the tendency of forgetting things the moment they reach their destinations, and being nervous can also make one forget what questions he or she was going to ask.
Chances are your premature ejaculation does not have a medical reason behind it. Medical reason is rarely the case for most men. Therefore, your doctor will likely only be able to offer you some encouragement and advice instead of actually prescribing you medicine for premature ejaculation. If this is the case, you may ask your doctor about using a program that trains men to have better ejaculatory control such as the “Ejaculation Trainer” by Matt Gorden. If you properly and correctly explain what the program entails, your doctor will likely agree that this solution is much more suitable for your situation since you are not suffering from any real medical problem in the first place but just simply desire to last longer and prevent premature ejaculation in the future.
About the author:
Matt Gorden is the creator of “Ejaculation Trainer“, a program that teaches men how to maintain mental so they can delay ejaculation and last longer. What distinguish his program from others is that it does not neglect any minor factor that may contribute to your premature ejaculation problem. If you are looking for a natural and effective premature ejaculation treatment, look no further, visit: Ejaculation Trainer.