By Edward White, Creator, Prejaculation
The answer is yes. The mind of a human being is a very powerful thing as it influences your behaviors and thoughts both consciously and subconsciously. Therefore, your mind really does play a big role in causing your early ejaculation problem.
However, not the entire early ejaculation problem is caused by the mind. Most men just simply do not know what methods to use when it comes to achieving delay ejaculation during sex. It is unfortunate that school does not teach this sort of stuff.
If you are like most men, your early ejaculation problem begins in your head. If you know you are having trouble with controlling your ejaculation, the tendency is to think and worry about the problem every single time you initiate sexual activity with your woman. You can understand why this can worsen your premature ejaculation symptoms. The more you worry about the problem, the more likely the problem will come true. As the more frequently the problem occurs, the more you believe that your early ejaculation problem is inevitable.
Luckily, premature ejaculation problem is actually so much easier to be solved than other problems in a man’s life. You just need to develop the right skills and proper mindset before you can get rid of it completely and permanently. You will not need any tablets, creams or surgery.
An Optimistic Attitude
You need to first develop an optimistic attitude when it comes to performing sexual activities in the bedroom. It is essential that you must believe that you will be able to last longer than your current performance. You have to encourage yourself by thinking that your early ejaculation problem is merely a temporary setback and not a permanent state. With such optimistic attitude, you can gain the confidence which is going to propel you to practice many techniques that will eventually improve your sexual stamina tremendously.
A Productive Use of Mental Energy
One of the many excellent techniques that you may use when it comes to curing premature ejaculation is to channel the energy of your mind into a much more productive one instead of worrying about a possible negative outcome. Use the “Stimulation Awareness Scale”. It is a scale of 1 to 10 that you may use throughout sexual intercourse. This scale is designed to assist you gauge the level of sexual stimulation and arousal that you are experiencing in bed. 10 is climaxing and 1 is not aroused or stimulated at all.
By being aware of your stimulation level, you will be able to recognize how rapidly certain sexual maneuvers or certain sexual positions can have impacts on your ability to delay ejaculation. By being aware of your stimulation, you can identify how far you are from climaxing so you will be able to do everything you can to lower your level of stimulation before approaching the point of no return. This is very helpful especially when you practice the techniques used for improving your sexual stamina.
About the author:
Edward White is the creator of “Prejaculation“, the Ultimate Orgasm and Ejaculation Control Manual. His book on premature ejaculation treatment helps men to get rid of their early ejaculation problems permanently so they can last longer in bed. If you wish to learn more on how you can build a supreme sexual stamina and endurance, please visit: Prejaculation.