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How to Control Ejaculation and Have Sex Longer

How to Control Ejaculation and Have Sex Longer


By Lloyd Lester, Creator, Ejaculation By Command

If you want to learn how to control ejaculation and have sex longer, you do not need to purchase products such as numbing sprays, special ointment or specialty condoms. A lot of sellers would like you to believe that you can “cure” your early ejaculation problem by using those products but the truth is they are temporary “band-aid” and you must depend on them every time you have sex. In other words, you must spend money again and again in order to add minutes to the length of time you can have sex.

Lasting Longer in Bed Through Arousal Control

In order to have sex longer, controlling your arousal in bed is considered the best way. By first understanding the 4 stages of male sexual arousals, you will be able to achieve this sexual milestone.  When you are sexually stimulated during sex, the sensations your mind and body are experiencing are what arousal is all about. If you can keep tab on how both your mind and body react and respond throughout the 4 stages of male sexual arousals, you will be able to learn how to control ejaculation and have sex longer.

The 4 Stages Of  Male Sexual Arousal

Stage 1 is when the penis of a man begins to have an erection.

Stage 2 is when the sexual arousal starts to increase and the erection of the man is full but he remains in control.

Stage 3 is when the male arousal begins to intensify. The penis glans of the man start to expand while becoming more and more sensitive and he is almost about to ejaculate.

Stage 4 is when the nervous system of the man tips over, causing his perineal muscles to contract then the eventual ejaculation.

To have sex longer, you must stretch out the 3 stages of male sexual arousal for a long as you can. Men who suffer from the problem of premature ejaculation tend to go from stage 1 to 4 in less than one mintue or even less while men with supreme sexual stamina are able to extend their sexual performance to one full hour or even more.

Among the 4 stages of male sexual arousal, stage 2 is important. You must learn to stay at stage 2 for as long as possible. Once you reach stage 3, that is the point of no return, you will ejaculate no matter whater, even if your parents suddenly walk in on you and your girl.

How to Achieve “Arousal Longevity”

If you can relax your entire body and mind, you will be able to achieve arousal longevity in stage 2. The key to achieve arousal longevity is that you must concentrate on giving instead of taking. Remember this because it is essential if you really want to learn how to control ejaculation and have sex longer.

You must focus on giving your partner sexual pleasure by caressing, touching and stimulating her erogenous zones. Ask her which spots on her body she likes to be touched and touch them. Each woman is actually different, so you need to be able to find out where those spots are. Therefore, if you can redirect your focus away from the sexual pleasures of your own genital, you can remain in stage 2 for as long as you desire until you stimulate your woman enough for sexual intercourse.

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is an expert on premature ejaculation treatment and the creator of “Ejaculation By Command“. His manual is a step-by-step blueprint that teaches men to permanently cure their early ejaculation problems in order last longer in bed. If you wish to develop a superb sexual stamina and fulfill your partner’s sexual desires, please visit: Ejaculation By Command.

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