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Control Ejaculation Even When She is in Charge

Control Ejaculation Even When She is in Charge


By Edward White, Creator, Prejaculation

Before you learn to control ejaculation during sex even when your partner is in control, you might want to familiarize yourself with the top 3 sexual positions that involve the female being in charge are cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and doggy style. You probably thought that the doggy style looks like a sex position in which you are in control, but very often, the woman will begin moving forwards and backwards, so you must get the idea. The girl took over the control so you either kneel or stand as the intercourse resumes.

Therefore, how do you control ejaculation and your arousal level without pausing the intercourse? With the “Distract and Direct” technique, you do not have to stop the action.

The Distract and Direct Technique

When you engage in the cowgirl position with your girl, which when she is riding on top of you while you lay on your back. Then you begin feeling you are progressing quickly on the sexual stimulation scale, first a 5 and rapidly toward a 7.

What is a sexual stimulation scale? It is a scale inside your head for recognizing and determining how aroused you are and therefore how close and how soon you are about to approach your orgasm. 0 is not stimulated, not even a little bit. 3 is somewhat stimulated but you can still control yourself. 6 is where you really begin to feel stimulated. If you carried on a 6, you would move up to a 7 which means you are quite stimulated sexually. When you reach beyond a 7, you are at a 9 which is near the point of no return. Once you pass the point of no return, you will climax no matter what you try to do.

When you are at a 7 on the stimulation scale, you want to see if you can adjust the action in order to gradually pull your stimulation level back down.

How?

After your partner has been riding on top of you for several minutes and you have reached a 7 on the stimulation scale, you gently tell her, “You are making me feel so good, babe. Come here and let me kiss you.” She will bend down to let you kiss her. So, instead of sitting up straight like earlier, her head is near yours and her breasts are now parallel to your torso.

Being kissing your partner passionately and gently and slowly take over the action. Since now she has leaned forward too much, her butt must stop or slow down vastly the amount of grinding and bouncing she has been working on. Now, you may grab her butt with your hands and take charge of the thrusting at the speed you desire. If you do this, it will offer you a chance to return to where you would like on the scale. Therefore, kissing your partner is the distraction and taking over the action is the direction.

When you think you are ready for your partner to take over the action again, just stop kissing her and stop grabbing her rear. Your partner will naturally sit up straight again and be in charge once more. Nothing needs to be discussed and agreed prior to the sexual encounter. It is all natural and it just works by itself due to the change in body positions.

Now, imagine you two are engaging in the doggy position and she is in control of the back and forth movement. When you recognize you are at the 7 on the stimulation scale so you must use the Distract and Direct technique. Distract by learning your body forward a little, use one or both of your hands to reach around the girl’s waist and start rubbing her clitoris.  This is going to make her slow down her back and forth movement.

Now, start taking over the thrusting slowly until the speed is good enough to bring down your stimulation level. At which point, you may lean back so your body again becomes vertical and continue the action. When you feel you are ready to give her back the control, just simply stop thrusting. As soon as you stop thrusting, she will get a natural urge to be in charge once more.

The Distract and Direct technique is great and works well because the woman always feels like she is in charge of the action, even though there are minutes or so you take over control of the action. She does not even realize when it happens since she become distracted from your kissing and clit rubbing or even some spanking if you are creative enough. Before the woman knows it, she regains controls again. This special but simple technique can make sexual intercourse feel two-way, shared and much more delicious for the both of you.

About the author:

Edward White is the creator of “Prejaculation“, the Ultimate Orgasm and Ejaculation Control Manual. His book on premature ejaculation treatment helps men to get rid of their early ejaculation problems permanently so they can last longer in bed. If you wish to learn more on how you can build a supreme sexual stamina and endurance, please visit: Prejaculation.

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